Fitting In

  Being part of the in crowd. Feeling like one of the cool kids. Belonging. The great dilemma of a lifetime. We try so so so hard to be liked. To be loved. To be part of the scene. It changes like shifting sands. It is exhausting to keep up. It is a lot of work...

Something To Look Forward To

  At all times have something in your future you are looking forward to.   Anticipating.   Working toward.   Excited about.   You know the feeling when you finally actually book a vacation and the tickets are confirmed and you know it is on your calendar? Isn’t...

What If You Were Already There

  You know there is no “there” right? No actual place to arrive in our lives where we have ‘made it.’ There is always always always more. More to achieve, another mountain to climb, the next level to get to. Our mind will chime in and...

Commitment To Something

  You are committed.   Really.   Even if you think you are not.   Take a look around your life and the results of what you are committed to are right there. You could be:   Committed to doing whatever you want whenever you want.   Committed to people leaving you...

Complicated

It is isn’t it?   Life.   Complicated.   As we become grown ups it is not always black and white.   The beliefs we thought we would always believe.   The dreams we used to allow ourselves to have.   The people we never imagined we couldn’t count on.   The...