Being part of the in crowd.

Feeling like one of the cool kids.

Belonging.

The great dilemma of a lifetime.

We try so so so hard to be liked. To be loved. To be part of the scene.

It changes like shifting sands.

It is exhausting to keep up.

It is a lot of work to win an un-win-able game.

Just blazing our own trail sounds oh so good, so freeing, so do-able.

But it does not seem easy.

We all want to be loved.

To be accepted.

To be wanted.

What if we started with fitting in to our own skin, and felt unshakably good about our own selves?

Not that is the kind of fitting in I can count on.

#wantingtobeapartoftheincrowd

#thegreatdilemma

#feelinggoodinyourownskin

 

@thegpsgirl
 Karen Jacobsen is The GPS Girl®, giving directions as the speaking voice of  “Australian Karen” in over 400 million GPS and smartphone devices around the globe. A professional speaker, singer and voice-over artist, Karen travels the world speaking and performing concert-style keynotes to groups who want to be able to Recalculate and give their best in business and life. Karen has enjoyed wide media coverage, but she was told she had really made it when she was a clue in The New York Times crossword puzzle.  Sharing the bill with Norah Jones, Neil Sedaka and Christopher Cross, she has performed national anthems at many major sporting events including the New York Jets game at Giants Stadium. Karen Jacobsen is the Immediate Past President of the National Speakers Association-New York City, and with an eight year old son has plenty of opportunity to Recalculate on a daily basis. Her new book RECALCULATE – Directions for Driving Performance Success is now available.